Anita and Ray's parents: Our heartfelt sympathy is extended to each of you. I pray that you will receive help and support from friends, family, and especially God through Jesus Christ during this very trying time. I had not seen Ray in several years, but over the years of his and Anita's marriage, we did know him. It is so hard to come to grips over the death of someone as young as Ray, but each of you will remember all the years you did have him with you. Love to you Anita. Tom and Mary Oakes, Skyla Gibbs, Brandi Barnak, and Jennifer Barnak