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In Memory of
Jay Christopher
Clarke
1968 - 2016
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Miss you
i still can't believe you're gone too soon. You were such a sweet, fun person. You had a great vibe about you and a great smile. I shared the post about your passing and services on Fb. Several people who recognized you but didn't know you well made comme...
Lynn Knight
2016-02-13 11:06:56
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Thoughts

To Jay's Family:

Want you to know that I love you all very much and am praying for you during this time.

Jay means the world to me, as you know. Six and a half years just doesn't seem enough time.

I am so gla...

Charity Wilson
2016-02-12 18:33:57
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Jaybyrd

Today I sat bedside with my aunt ,sister and family members at Norfolk general saying my goodbyes to my cousin Clarke Jay...

James Kaba
2016-02-12 16:52:39
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96X FM "Satellite Friends" Tribute

I’m not good with death. Who is, right? It’s such a confusing concept. Such a mix of feelings we can experience when someone we know passes. You want to hope and think they are in a better place, but ma...

Crizti Walsh
2016-02-12 16:48:52
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Strong and Steady

Jay loved his music "loud & fast" but he was always "strong and steady" for our family. Jay was "Lee's friend" when I met him in the early 90s. in 1994, he and Lee drove a big truck with all the belongings I had...

Ed Reams
2016-02-12 16:46:32
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Part of the family

When I was in my teens in the sixties, I sometimes went on dates, but that never seemed to be the case for my daughter Pagan. She ran with a herd. Blue, Sharon, Lee, Anna, Jay, Earl, Michael, Ellie, Leigh Ann, so many more. They became members of my...

Kathy Hill
2016-02-12 10:41:37
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Thanks from Kevin's little brother.

Dear Clarke Family,

Very sorry for your loss. Peace be with you and thanks for all the love you extended to Jay to make him the loving example that remains for all of us...

Jay was one of the very best friends my eldest brother...

Robin Kerr
2016-02-12 02:27:13
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Jay Will Truly Be Missed
I can't remember when I first met Jay. It must of been sometime in the mid-90s, when he was in Black Jesus and I was in my band, The Hustlers. Over the next 20 years, he and I were part of an extended rock 'n' roll family, and went to the same shows, barbecues,...
Andrea Rizzo
2016-02-11 12:26:56
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Fav Punk Rock Singer

By Eric Thornton Everyone has their own favorite punk rock singer but I got to play in a band with mine.

About 30+ years ago my friend ...

Eric Thorton
2016-02-11 08:47:58
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Don Jaco Memory

i remember transfering from virginia beach schools and starting ninth grade at maury and being a little intimidated about going to norfolk schools because of there reputation. i walked into math class and sat by jay who even then had a larger than life...

Don Jaco
2016-02-11 08:45:17
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