In Memory of

Michael

Ray

Toothman

Condolences

Condolence From: Josef & Joy Marks
Condolence: Five years… seams like yesterday. Tears have subsided and replaced with memories of happier times. Cheers Mike! All of the family remain in our families daily prayers. Eternal rest Grant unto Mike and Matt…. May they continue to Rest In Peace.
Saturday August 07, 2021
Condolence From: Josef & Joy Marks
Condolence: Five years… seams like yesterday. Tears have subsided and replaced with memories of happier times. Cheers Mike! All of the family remain in our families daily prayers. Eternal rest Grant unto Mike and Matt…. May they continue to Rest In Peace.
Saturday August 07, 2021
Condolence From: Denise Smith
Condolence: Dear Susie and Toothman family, We are so sorry for your loss. He was a great detective and all around great guy. He would do anything for anybody. I miss seeing him at work as well as with the band. He will be greatly missed. We are praying for you and your family every day. God bless you. Denise, Steve, Sarah and Brittany Smith
Thursday August 18, 2016
Condolence From: Rhonda Montrose
Condolence: My sincere prayers with you and your family. Mike was one of kind, one of the sweetest people I ever worked with, always a kind word and smile-former VPBD and contractor.
Tuesday August 16, 2016
Condolence From: The Spencer family
Condolence: As members of the Hickory High/PTA community, our hearts are heavy over your tragedy and our prayers for your family continue in that may you rest in the arms of our Lord as each day passes, may you feel the love from many who want to take your pain away. Jane-Ann, Jeff, Ariana (class 2016) and Aulden (class 2024) Spencer
Monday August 15, 2016
Condolence From: Margaret Shank
Condolence: To say I am sorry for your loss, does not take away the sorrow one feels when there are no words to sum up what one feels. To say I understand does not make sense if you have never experience exactly what has happened. All I can say is Mike was a wonderful human being. He was kind, fair and understanding. He will be missed by many. May the family be strong, happy memories prevail, and positive energy guide you now and into the future so you may heal.
Monday August 15, 2016
Condolence From: Barbara Remington
Condolence: I was a fellow classmate in the NJROTC program at Princess Anne High School. Mike will be greatly miss by all the lives he came in contact with. He was a wonderful leader and friend.
Monday August 15, 2016
Condolence From: Hickory Band Parent 1996-1999
Condolence: So sorry for the loss that the Toothman family is enduring right now. Such a tragic thing to happen. May God place his hands on Susan, Zachary, Rex, Karen, and all their family and friends during this very difficult time. Did not know them but have been so heartbroken from reading about this. Just makes you want to cry. God Bless you Michael and Matt.
Monday August 15, 2016
Condolence From: Debbie Kleeger
Condolence: Susie, my deepest condolences to you and your in-laws. I pray for you to find peace.
Monday August 15, 2016
Condolence From: AnnaMarieMullins(Clark)
Condolence: To all those left behind and to his family, prayers I send you. Mike, TooToo , was a high school friend. He played tennis and ran track with my brother and his friends after school and some weekends. He was our intrepid leader in NJROTC. He was a great character and friend. He loved picking on me about my studies and me be a social queen. I was Military Ball Queen our senior year and he loved teasing me about it. I saw him in later years. He said he married a beautiful woman and loved his sons. I had three autistic sons and he said love and pride of being their mom was good enough. He will truly be missed. He went to Heaven with his son and leaves behind his greatest loves. His wife and parents. He will be best guardian angel and will be there waiting. Blessings. Anna and Families Mullins&Clarks
Sunday August 14, 2016
Condolence From: Maureen Kolstee & Rosely Steven
Condolence: We were filled with such sorrow when hearing of your immense tragedy and loss. Too much for words to express but please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you, Karen ,Rex and Susie.
Sunday August 14, 2016
Condolence From: Brenda Rea
Condolence: Karen, I so wish I could say something to give you comfort at this time of utter sadness and grief. I know your heart is surely broken. There are things and events we will never understand in this journey of earthly life but are promised to understand in the next. Just try to hold the good times in your heart at this time of pain and sadness. May you find peace and comfort in the mercy of God's arms. Brenda Rea
Sunday August 14, 2016
Condolence From: The Pennecke Family
Condolence: Our hearts, prayers and thoughts are with the Toothman Family as they try to cope with this horrific tragedy. 💔
Saturday August 13, 2016
Condolence From: Brett & Helena Johnson
Condolence: I had the pleasure of knowing Michael in High School NJROTC and My husband knew him at the Chesapeake Police Academy. We did not know we both knew him until this unfortunate circumstance. This tells me Michael made his mark in this world and lived life. He was an achiever and an inspirational leader and We are sure his love for life was infectious. God Bless you Susie and Mr. & Mrs. Toothman...
Saturday August 13, 2016
Condolence From: RET. CPD, Douglas Foster & Family
Condolence: With a very heavy heart in learning of your losses. We will keep your family in our thoughts & prayers for the difficult times ahead. God Bless You & Your Family.
Saturday August 13, 2016
Condolence From: Rosa Rodriguez
Condolence: Dear Susie, I wish I had the words to lighten your pain, but sometimes words are not enough. Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss. Praying that God would bring you and your family comfort. Remember that you VTCC family is here for you.
Saturday August 13, 2016
Condolence From: Monica, Sérgio and Vanessa Toledo
Condolence: Dear Susie and family, We have been praying for you everyday. We wished we could be closer but be sure that you are in our hearts and minds. We believe God will give you strength and support, trust in Him as much as you can during these trying times.
Saturday August 13, 2016
Condolence From: Amber Whittaker Williams
Condolence: Dear Susie - My family and I are so sorry for your loss and wanted you, your family and members of the CPD to know you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
Saturday August 13, 2016
Condolence From: Dawn Brown
Condolence: Susie - Thinking of you and Mike and all the fond memories we all shared. We pray for peace and healing for you and Mr. & Mrs. Toothman. Dawn & Mitchell Brown
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Joseph & Lezeria Marsh
Condolence: Praying for family and friends during this difficult time. GOD opened the heavens and sent for His angel to return home. To GOD be the glory.
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Uncle Earl, Auntie Jo, Rob and Kate Ferguson
Condolence: Dearest Michael, we can't believe you are gone! We recall all those times you spent with us a young boy! You were certainly a good citizen protecting your community! In addition, you were a great son, husband and father! God Bless all the ones you have left! Know you will never be forgotten. Love
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Bauer-Chen family
Condolence: Thank you for your service to our community! We would just like to offer our sincere condolences to your family who may be struggling to figure out the way forward. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Doris Hurt
Condolence: Susie. My heart bleeds for you. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers every day since Sunday. I am here and will do whatever I can do for you. Continuing to lift you in prayer. 🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Ronda Dudley
Condolence: Dear Susie - My heart is heavy with sorrow for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. With my sincerest condolences, Ronda
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Mary Beth Straight-Kiss
Condolence: Susie and Mr. And Mrs. Toothman. I am so sorry for your sudden loss. I pray that you find some comfort knowing that both Matthew and Mike left a positive mark in the community they left behind. I will continue to search for the link between our Fairmont, WV Toothmans, to be able to claim Mike and Matthew as distant cousins would be a privilege. Your Hickory community is here for you.
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Bob and Anne Mortenson
Condolence: Our hearts are heavy for you in the loss of your loved ones. Please accept our sincere sympathy and know we are praying for you.
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Jeff & Sonja Helton
Condolence: Susie and family, We are so incredibly sorry for your loss of both Matthew & Michael. You are in our thoughts and prayers always.
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Diane Gossett
Condolence: Susie, prayers for you and your extended family during this very difficult time. I am here to help you in whatever way I can.
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Kelly Kozlowski Ferrell
Condolence: PRAYERS for the family. Richmond Hill, GA
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: The Viola Family
Condolence: We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Toothman family and our brothers and sisters in blue.
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Teresa Cramer
Condolence: Det. Toothman, I have to say even after reading everyrhing I have read I am still finding it hard to believe what happen to you & your son Matthew. I didn't know you personally like alot of people do but I knew you in passing when my children went to Deep Creek High School and that has been many years ago. I have to say you were always very nice. Det. Toothman, I have to say you are going to be missed by many from family to friends to people that met you briefly. Det. Toothman, you have left a everlasting impression on many. Det. Toothman, Rest In Peace. Mrs. Toothman, I don't know you personally but I wanted you to know that I haven't stopped thinking about you since I was told what happened. If I were to meet you I honestly wouldn't know what to say so I beleive I would just give you a hug if you would allow it. I have met your husband in passing when my kids went to Deep Creek High School and I would like you to know you are one lucky lady to have been married to such a sweet and nice man. My heart and thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Julie Sarakatsannis
Condolence: Dear Susie, We are praying the Lord surrounds you with love, compassion, support and faith during this difficult time. We also pray He grants Michael and Matt eternal peace. The children still remember playing Jenga and building marble mazes with Zac and Matt when they babysat for us. That's how I choose to remember both: caring, happy, active boys. Love, Julie and Greg Sarakatsannis
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Monique Shealy
Condolence: My sincere condolences to your family. I pray they will have the strength to get through this... The community of Great Bridge is here to support you in this most difficult time. We will be praying for you all. 'In one of the stars, I shall be living. In one of them, I shall be laughing. And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night.' ~ The Little Prince ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Friday August 12, 2016
Condolence From: Susan Everingham
Condolence: Dear Susie and the extended family of the Toothman's, I hope knowing that all of those who were around Michael and Matthew will carry goodness, humor, and compassion forward. This community is praying for each of you wishing you Gods blessing and comfort. Sometimes God picks a flower that's still in full bloom. Sometimes the flower that is chosen, we feel He's picked too soon. We're at peace knowing; in God's heavenly garden, He has placed the ones we treasure. You have changed our lives forever. The Everingham Family~
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Zoe Cheong Rimmer
Condolence: Detective Michael Toothman was a great man, instructor, and mentor. My condolences go out to you and your family. I knew Det. Toothman as an instructor at ECPI. He was a kind and very knowledgeable man who taught me a great deal during my time in college. I am grateful for everything he has taught me and he will surely be missed by his students and colleagues. I am praying for you and your family that you find peace during this tragic time. God Bless.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Melanie Wilhelm
Condolence: Susie, Our hearts break for you. We are so sorry for your loss. Sending love, sympathy and prayers. We are here for whatever you need and however we can help. With sympathy and love, Melanie,Matt,Brandon & Ashley-Kate Wilhelm
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Teresa Cramer
Condolence: Det. Toothman, I have to say even after reading everyrhing I have read I am still finding it hard to believe what happen to you & your son Matthew. I didn't know you personally like alot of people do but I knew you in passing when my children went to Deep Creek High School and that has been many years ago. I have to say you were always very nice. Det. Toothman, I have to say you are going to be missed by many from family to friends to people that met you briefly. Det. Toothman, you have left a everlasting impression on many. Det. Toothman, Rest In Peace. Mrs. Toothman, I don't know you personally but I wanted you to know that I haven't stopped thinking about you since I was told what happened. If I were to meet you I honestly wouldn't know what to say so I beleive I would just give you a hug if you would allow it. I have met your husband in passing when my kids went to Deep Creek High School and I would like you to know you are one lucky lady to have been married to such a sweet and nice man. My heart and thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Kathi Reed (HMS)
Condolence: Praying for all of you and hoping good memories will help you through this.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Pip Preiss
Condolence: Susie, I am so sorry for your loss of Mike and Matt and I wanted you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort and hope with the help of your family and friends.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Kat Dee
Condolence: Susie - I know that words will never erase your pain. Our connection is through the VTCC family. You have our deepest sympathy for your monumental loss. May God grant you and Zach His peace, and may the memory of Matthew and Michael be ever eternal. We are praying for you at this difficult time.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: donald Smichnick
Condolence: Mike you were a great farther and friend. you will be missed. prayers for you and your family
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Clara Broome
Condolence: Susie and Rex and Karen: I am sadness for your loss , words can't express how heart broken I am for your loss. God Bless you and your family, I will always remember Mike and Matthew , they were so special. Susie keep your chin up high ,we are all here for you. Love you Clara Broome
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Beverly Larkin
Condolence: My heart aches for you. I will always remember Zach as a sweet little 5 year old coming into kindergarten with his baby brother and his wonderful parents. May you all feel some comfort from your memories, your God, your family and friends.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Michael L O'Neill
Condolence: My deepest condolences. It was an honor and pleasure to know and work with Mike through the years.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Lisa Grant
Condolence: Dear Susie and Mr. & Mrs. Toothman, We are so sorry for your loss. Our loving and healing prayers during this most difficult time. Love, Lisa Grant and Lee "Pookie' Grant
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Billie and Todd Russell
Condolence: Praying for strength and guidance during this difficult time, Susie. Please know we are here for you if you need anything.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Nancy and Bruce Wilcox
Condolence: Dearest Susie, We were so saddened to hear about Mike and Matt. Our prayers go out to you and Zach. We are holding you close in our hearts. God bless you, Nancy and Bruce
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Jackie Kennedy and family
Condolence: We are so very sadden by your loss and know that you and your family have been in our thoughts and prays often since your loss. I want you to know Susie if you ever need anything even an ear to listen I am here for you. loving thoughts and prayers Jackie Kennedy and family
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Eisset Molina
Condolence: Our deepest condolences to Mrs. Susie Toothman and family. May the peace of GOD surround you during this time of sorrow. Our prayers are with your family. Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Joan Knight
Condolence: Our heartfelt condolences to the family of Michael and Matt. You will be in our prayers always. Joanie, Chris, and Lacie Knight
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Nancy Kraemer
Condolence: It is such an honor to know this family. I think we are still at a loss for words but just know the Kraemers send love and prayers to you!!
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Holly Hiltibran
Condolence: Susie,the parents of Michael and all family, I am so sorry for your loss. You will all be in by prayers. Rip Michael and Matthew.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Kenny McLendon
Condolence: It was my honor to have known Mike and his son Matt. Our friendship will go on till the end of time. May they both rest in peace.👮🚔🇺🇸
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Mr & Mrs John Rickards
Condolence: Seeing Michael's name and reading this so many happy memories come flooding back. We have known the Toothman family9 Michael's parents, Michael & his sister) since 1974. There were so many dinners,gatherings and just good times when our children were growing up. We treasure all of the good times. Prayers that the happy memories are some comfort in this time of what must be unbearable grief & sorrow.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Corinne White
Condolence: Susie, I only met you and your family a handful of times, but you left an impression of warmth. You are in my thoughts. Corinne-sister of Chris Milot.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Michelle Grosso
Condolence: Susie, My prayers and heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. I have never met you but am part of the VTCC family, we have always been there for each other through thick and thin and are with you now. You are in my families prayers and the prayers of all Cadet families. "Those we loved don't go away, they walk beside us every day, Unseen, Unheard, but always near, Still loved, Still missed and Always dear. Death leaves a heartache that no one can heal, love leaves a memory that no one can steal." The Grosso Family
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Phyllis Breedlove
Condolence: Susie- May the love that Michael and Matthew shared with you bring you comfort and peace in the days ahead. Lean on family and friends, including your VTCC family. We will always be here for you. With deepest sympathy.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Reynolds Family
Condolence: With sincere sympathy and prayers for peace. May God surround you with everlasting comfort. The Reynolds family and 2nd Lt. M. Reynolds, Class of 2016, VT Corps of Cadets.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Amy Pugh
Condolence: Susie...I just want to let you know how much you are in my prayers - I cannot say anything to heal your wounds but knowing that you have the support of your friends and VTCC family I hope you will just know that we are all in this with you. Much love and God Speed to you as He takes you into His Loving Arms.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Ethan Richardson
Condolence: Gone but never forgotten. May God grant you peace. Jennifer
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Stephanie Sarris
Condolence: Susie, may your fond and loving memories carry you through this time of grief and bring you comfort and peace. I am holding you and Mike and Matthew in my prayers and wishing you strength and much love.
Thursday August 11, 2016
Condolence From: Theresa Lee
Condolence: Susie - May the stars carry your sadness away, May the flowers fill your heart with beauty, May hope forever wipe away your tears. Remembering Mike and Matt in my heart, and I pray that Jesus wrap his arms around you in loving comfort.
Thursday August 11, 2016